Trauma Healing

If i can tell you any advice of how I get through consistent, almost daily trauma for many years, is safety.
If you can’t find safety outside of you or your environment. Work on the deep inner healing and make yourself the safe space. This is something I’ve done over the years, and it’s gotten me through ALOT of trauma. Talk to your inner child. I have an older video about this. https://youtu.be/i_ZFEgMfR7c
Look slowly at your trauma and defense mechanisms and how they came to be. Knowledge is power.
Always come back to a place of compassion.
Think of life as it is, not as what you want it to be.
Journaling, Venting, talk therapy.
I used many my videos of myself working through issues, which is why some can be in a very raw form. It’s about reparenting ourselves and also to be able to set boundaries.
You do not need those people to love, validate or chase approval of others.
If you took all that energy, and say it is what it is. You practice self care, into self love. Have conversations with your inner being. You begin to trust yourself. You won’t need people like you thought you did. And you learn and discern quickly who is safe, and who is not. Who you can trust, and who you cannot. I have quite a few videos made over the years if you need extra help on your healing, and you’re welcome to talk with me personally as well.

Hope For 3 – Autism Advocacy ๐ŸŒˆ

We had a phenomenal meeting!

Hope for 3 (Autism Advocacy)

Hope For Three provides Empowerment to parents, caregivers, and extended family members. Vital training, tools, and valuable resources will help your child(ren) live their best life possible.

Join us in supporting local families living with autism.

Event-driven, the organization holds numerous fundraising, outreach, and awareness efforts throughout the year. Volunteers, the driving force in this community, are crucial to our success in helping โ€œausomeโ€ kids.

Your time, talent, and contribution can be the difference, and change a childโ€™s future.

What does your Mars sign want to do?

“Heal Humanity, all day everyday” โค๏ธ ๐Ÿ˜˜

BONUS HOMEWORK: Journal Prompts

1. How does this show up in my life?

2. What does this look like in my life?

3. How does it make me feel?

4. Is this something I enjoy?

5. How could I make more of these happen?

Full Moon Lunar Eclipse in Taurus 11/8/22

That beautiful full moon in Taurus (full lunar eclipse) intense and beautiful energy

Happy 11:11 Portal

Wishing I could write a post up for y’all but man this portal got me doing extensive shadow work, generational trauma fighting, healing, and transmutation. โค๏ธ Love y’all.

You’re gonna be OK, even when we’re not. Scorpio season has me and the kids like ๐Ÿฅด๐Ÿฅด

so i will leave you with some memes ๐Ÿ˜˜

My lil friend, Goblin the Geico

Intuition Vs. FEAR

We are all intuitive beings, some of us more than others, just because we practice it.  There is a deep inner knowing that guides us towards our manifestations and goals. The intuition is what sparks moments of creativity and inspiration. When you have epiphanies of your lifeโ€™s purpose, or big ideas you want to accomplish, your intuition is at work.
However, after these epiphanies and flashes of inspiration, many of us rush into taking action too quickly.
Now I know what youโ€™re thinking, โ€œBut quicker action means reaching our goals faster, right?โ€โ€ฆโ€ฆnot quite.

We have this feeling that when we have an idea we need to act fast to โ€œmakeโ€ it happen, even when we donโ€™t feel like it. We โ€œworkโ€ towards our goals, and force ourselves to complete a certain number of tasks a day. And donโ€™t get me wrong, taking action is good. But only when it feels good.

Ultimately, when we force action, the excitement fades, and the effort feels more like something we need to do, not want to do. We begin to force things to happen, instead of allowing things to unfold naturally.

So when is the right time to take action? How do you know when to take the next step towards your big goals and aspirations?
The answer is simple, although sometimes it can feel hard to comprehend: use your intuition. When you feel in alignment and empowered to act, it is time to take inspired action. When the feeling of excitement builds up so much that you cannot help but act, it is time. But if you feel resistant about taking action, if you feel like โ€œI need to do this if I want my dreams to come trueโ€, then wait.
Work with the flow of life force, do not rush it. Allow the flow of life to carry you towards your dreams. This does not mean just sitting around and waiting, but instead letting life guide you towards what action to take next. When you feel inspired to do something, do it. When the opportunity arises, quiet that inner fearful voice, and go for it.
Just as you shouldnโ€™t sit back and wait, you shouldnโ€™t force things to happen. Although you may feel that taking action when you donโ€™t feel like it will make your dreams come quicker, it actually does the opposite. When you take action is a vibrational state that is not in alignment with your desires, you will repel them rather than attract the results you desire.

In order to follow your intuition, learn how to listen to it. Learn what it feels like for you.
Often times we confuse our intuition with the voice of fear. We wonder if that voice telling us not to act is truly from our gut, or out of fear.

If you are struggling with telling the difference between fear and intuition, here are four things you need to know:

1. Meditate every day to quiet your mind. In order to hear your inner voice, your mind must quiet, and your ego must dissolve. In the moments of stillness, you can clearly hear the soft whisper of your intuition. You can feel the gentle nudges when find that still center, untouched by the chaotic world around it. By meditating every morning, you can set the tone for your day to focus on the stillness within your heart.

2. Listen to your emotions. Your emotions and feelings are the biggest indicators of your alignment with Source energy. When you feel discontent, sad, angry, or uneasy, you are not in alignment. When you feel happy, joyful, exhilarated, or excited, you are on the right path. Listen to the message of your emotions. Your discontent is telling you something needs to change! On the other hand, if you feel satisfied and excited in everything you do, you are allowing Source to flow through you into your actions.

3. Fear feels anxious, Intuition feels calm. There is a big difference between how intuition and a fearful thought feels. Fear makes you feel tight, anxious, and closed up. On the other hand, intuition feels calm, neutral, and clear. In other words, intuitive messages are not emotionally charged. They calmly guide you towards the next move to take. Next time you are trying to determine if your intuition is nudging you, pay attention to how you feel. Are you anxious and nervous? Or are you calm and content? When you are calm, you allow life to flow through you, and thus allow your intuition to lead the way.

4. Intuition is always about the present moment. Fear stems from being worried about the past or the future. Intuition only tells you information that is applicable to the present moment you are in right now. There is no need to know the next ten steps to take when you havenโ€™t even taken the first step. Your inner guidance leads you one step at a time, allowing you to flow effortlessly towards your goals. If you are experiencing questions of โ€œWhat ifโ€, that is your fear creeping in clouding your judgement. If the message your are receiving pertains to acting on something now, your intuition is calling for you.

Today, I challenge you to sit in meditation for ten minutes and observe your breath. Find the moments of quiet between each breath. Allow your mind to settle, so you can pull back the veil of fear and access your inner knowing.

You have the answers to any questions you may have, you just need to quiet the voice of fear that constantly runs throughout your mind. When you find yourself centered and at peace, ask the questions that weigh heaviest on your heart. Listen with curiosity, not judgement. Allow the answers to come from your center.

If you feel lost in life, remember that your instincts always have an answer. Let go of the fear that clouds your path and hides the way forward. Pull back the veil and access the deep inner knowing within.

If you allow it, your intuition will act as a compass, which always guides the way to your dreams. Follow it. Even if that means stopping to smell the roses every now and then. Or taking a pause to rest and recollect. Act when it feels good for you, not because your fear makes you feel like you need to.
When you enter this state of flow, things will manifest effortlessly in your life. Surprisingly, youโ€™ll find that if you stop forcing and rushing things, everything will happen faster. By allowing your actions to be inspired and flow, the momentum will build.
Release your resistance, and just have fun with life! Stop worrying about what you think you should or shouldnโ€™t do and just follow your heart.
Itโ€™s that easy.
Love, love, love – Nyssa

Important November Astrological Dates

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