Uniqueness

You cannot base your value off of what others value or devalue in you. Most won’t be shown your value, one so they can find it for themselves and many won’t realize it until you release them and some will never find it and that’s none of your concern. So why would we base our value off of someone else’s opinion? That’s only for people growing up who are getting to know and learn themselves; we co-regulate: when we’re dropped in an environment that isn’t what’s best for us or our highest self, we succumb to that environment or the conditioning of such. (Yelling at fish because they can’t climb a tree)
I told myself I’d break out of my shell, make friends and all that. And while that never worked for me, I did learn alot about human nature along the way. (Probably a little too much, even for my own liking)
Humans are quite interesting, intricate beings and yet can be easily seen at the molecular level, the things we want and don’t. Over my lifetime, I’ve definitely had learn to be ok with being the elephant in the room, and now i honestly celebrate myself for it. I’m alot like others, and also very different from everyone. A unique life, with similar experiences and yet so much difference. Not everyone’s going to understand you and that’s ok, just look more towards the people willing to try.