I was reminded that my most difficult relationships have been with 3s/5s.
5/1s are an “overt” challenge. You know from the beginning it won’t be an easy ride.
3/5s seem so friendly and human and you can not even imagine anything else than fun friendship and adventure.
Then in some unexpected moment (when you are completely trusting the care and good intention of the 3/5) suddenly you are faced with something completely different.
Something that for you as a 4/6 sets the whole relationship and friendship at play. The 3/5 will come at you with hostile energy and discredit everything you are, possibly down to the foundation of who you are as a human being.
You will be shocked, you will wonder how you didn’t see this coming. A part of you will feel hurt and even betrayed.
You sit with it, possibly not even sure how to respond. Your 4th line first needs to come out of its numbness. Your 6th line needs to come down in the body and let go of the need to understand what just happened.
Phoenix Evolution 